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Awkward Adolescence Part I: The Loner, the Enigma

Posted by CW64 on November 4, 2009

My adolescent years were not the proverbial bed of roses, but, then again, whose adolescent years really are?

The truth was that I was an awkward loner with not very many friends, if any at all. This is not a sob story, only an explanation of how things were for me.  At the time, I guess I found it less than ideal, but looking back now, in reflection, I can honestly say that those years and how they developed made me who I am today.

Furthermore, such an awkwardness with all of its indicative idiosyncrasies made for very interesting experiences. Some might think that such experiences were odd, but to me they were normal. I said this in the previous post, too, so that would be one consistency in my life–odd experiences. That, I figure, would make me such a colorful writer.

My sister left when I was about eight and got married when I was nine (she was nineteen) and moved away. By this time, all of the hippies were gone and my life, though I thrived on their influences clambering about inside of me,  consisted of refocused attention on school.

Little good that did me–I fit in less there than I did with my sister and her friends when they had been around.

But that was a blessing in disguise!

As I’d find out when I grew older, being alone has its advantages, not the least of which was the fact that loners spend a lot of time developing a strong sense of self. Well, my poor social skills weighed down my self-confidence, and I had a difficult time shrugging them away. I was not into sports, I had poor hygiene ("pizza face" and "oil slick" were among a few of my less-than-flattering but oh-so distinctive nicknames), and I was physically nothing more than a stick-figure.

My confidence deficiency could be seen in the jittery nervousness I exhibited when approaching the girls, and tripping over my tongue in "tho-tha-the-tha-tho-the-tha-the" fashion left the impression that I must not have been some type of inarticulate mental patient, although little Betty, with the munchkin smile, seemed to understand and could even somehow decipher the babbling. When I did form actual words to the girls, however, their tone bore the striking resemblance to some sort of ghoul with a weird bedside manner. The girls would smile and walk off giggling in their little cliques, which, the way they constantly discussed everything from boys to school issues to sports in such committee form that  one could rightfully call their gatherings a collection of youthful consortia.

And, of course, I was never a part of any of them.

That changed on paper, however. Whenever I wrote my thoughts, everything came flowing out in strings of unique word combinations that created imagery and ideas that no one else had previously guessed possible with me. Unfortunately, none of the other kids ever read my writings, but my teachers observed very closely. Some even cocked their eyebrows.

The same went for art. I was born with a sketch pencil in my hand.

When I was about ten, something strange and mystifying happened to me that I will never forget. That was the first time that I realized that I was different and that some would come to call "gifted". I was sitting in my desk by the large picture windows, mesmerized by the endless sea of daydreams beyond, phasing out the rather boring fifth grade math class surging around me. At one point, I found myself pulling out a piece of paper and, applying lead to it, began to scrawl. I didn’t know what it was, but I felt inspired. I got lost in the waves of my imagination for what seemed an eternity. The image I had drawn was elaborate and finely detailed, and I gazed upon with wonder. That’s when I noticed something else that startled me to the point of causing me to flinch back in my seat: The entire class, including the teacher, stood in a tight mob around my desk, staring down at my drawing. Apparently, the math lesson wasn’t interesting enough. Believe me, I could relate. A few kids gawked.

"You drew that?" One girl asked. "That’s good!"

I’m not sure how I responded, as I was still a bit dazed at that point, but I’m sure I said something pleasing in return, because someone else asked where I learned to draw like that. Even the teacher acknowledged she was impressed.

The writing, later on, was no different. I gradually phased out the girls and lived within myself. This I don’t see as a negative thing, as it allowed me the opportunity to get in touch with myself, to find some understanding regarding who I was and how I clicked. I grew up awkward, but I did so with a strong sense of self.

A universe worth of stories abound from this time period, with which I cannot even begin to share because they have no beginning nor an end, but the anxiety I incurred due to constant social rejection both enlightened me and dishearteningly held me back. The much-welcomed resentment leaked into my writings as well, but I felt stifled in my studies because I had become so shut off. Counseling was sometimes helpful, more to the therapists than to me, as I became a puzzle for them to spend their time piecing together and out of which to make some sort of sense. Well, that kept them all busy, which was nice even for me, as it kept them out of my hair and, more importantly, out of my mind.

At the same time, I was always level-headed to the point where I knew right from wrong and constantly questioned that, as nothing, not even a sense of morality, could be that finitely definitive. I got tired of really easy and effortless ideas, even though I admired the level of simplicity. I analyzed everything, even to the point of creating headaches (in others as well as myself), and many insisted that I "over-thought things" or "took things too seriously". This drove people away, but I carried on, even perplexing myself, but in a way that made sense to me. I became a contradiction.

That’s all right. There’s nothing inherently problematic with a contradiction.  Contradictions exist, and so in their existence, they are never erroneous or unjustified. In short: I am, I make my own sense, and so I am not nor can be wrong, even when I don’t seem to be right.

Many people insist on living within the constricting walls of logic, thinking that to be "superior thinking". 

The problem with logic is that it is too restricting, to limited. Einstein agreed. The imagination, as thought-provoking and boundless as it is, is far more significant to human ingenuity and identity.

I grew up an enigma, but I know that is what I was destined to become. It is not important that others understand or not understand me; all that matters is that I continue to be who I am and create expressions of endless unsolvable puzzles that are me . . .

Next:  Awkward Adolescence Part II: The Growing Individualist . . . .


41 Responses to “Awkward Adolescence Part I: The Loner, the Enigma”

  1. both drawing and writing are artistic forms, we just express our thoughts and feelings differently. I can’t draw worth anything and never have but those who can have the world at their feet.

    • CW64 said

      Well, writing and drawing are two different artistic mediums, and each has its own forms of expressions, but both are similar asthetically and in the means of conveying thoughts, ideas and feeling through metaphoric imagery. Both are perpetually tied together in this way.

      As one who writes and draws, I am familiar with the differences and similarities between the two, and I am intrigued by them for both reasons. I am easily inspired by the swirling of words and the flash of paint and lines (interestingly, the idea of ‘painting’ is and has been associated with writing as well, as in the phrase “paint a picture with words” to acknowledge and emphasize the artistic quality of writing and the fact that it is associated with studio art). At times, I am motivated by ideas, other times style features that I find are a challenge to open doors for my creative processes.

      This is why, quite often, stories are based on visuals depicted in paintings and drawings, and likewise that those visuals inspire stories to be written about them. In both dynamics, each medium compliments the other to create an artistic ‘whole’.

      In line with this, I aspire to write and equally desire to illustrate my stories, to express the language through which my characters thrive and interact, and to create visual depictions of those characters and the respective worlds in which they live. That allows me the freedom to expand on my creations and explore them in different ways, giving them a deeper sense of significance.

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      Thank you, Em, I appreciate the interest and the link. I hope you’ll hang around for more.


    • CW64 said

      By the way, Em,

      I would submit your RSS to my blogreader, but I am not certain yet how to do it. I haven’t had the time to look into it. I am new at blogs. Please be patient. If anyone has any suggestions for me regarding this, please feel free to share. Thank you.


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